Loving someone beyond their FAULT when your FAULTS are seen before you even make them… is a joke. Emotions according to the 48 Laws of Power are a weakness. Your emotions can taint your perception of a person or a situation that affects your ability to make clear decisions.
Why is it that we have so much love for others but, not that much love for ourselves beyond our FAULTS? Why can’t we obsess over ourselves as we do for our lovers or children?
Our FAULTS are written in stone like the ten commandments. I find this completely mind-blowing. We tell our children it is okay to make a mistake yet, crucify ourselves over a MISTAKE, what hypocrisy? We are walking contradictions and need to practice what we preach and teach.
How do we move forward from these FAULTS? How do we truly execute moving forward and forgiving ourselves? How can we trust our paths? How can we wholeheartedly trust ourselves beyond our petty FAULTS…The major FAULTS I know may take some time to let ourselves off the hook but, we need to get off…the hook
I always believed children have a sense of the world that we adults are out of touch with. I remember as a little girl, I use to tell my mother to fix what is fixable and what can not be fixed let it go.
How does this work…. you may ask? You have to know what is fixable… relationships are fixable but, that requires two willing participants. If one is not willing then, it becomes unfix-able. It is logical and reasonable. We make mistakes in relationships that we hold on to long to or situations you see for what they are but stay for the of the person or the children. How do we get past the FAULT of lost time, hurt, pain, insecurities, and shame? How do you build up the courage to forgive yourself and let go of it all?
What FAULTS are holding you back? Relationships, situations, circumstances… We all have them…
Being a cancer survivor, my circumstances have become stressful and in my opinion, overwhelming. I keep thinking, why do all these things keep happening? How come I was not able to prevent any of it? Is this all my FAULT? Maybe I should stress less, sleep more, workout, eat better, do more for others and the list goes on.
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I was upset about my chemo-brain not because even though my intellect is not damaged, it is interrupted..the connection between my brain and my mouth are slowed down… but not my creativity… I worried about my situations… so, I do not sleep… I must rest to repair and not get sick again…
How do I get through my FAULTS… the people that love me… they tell me to get my shit together and see the bigger picture… so what I can not remember everything write it down….so what you can not whip your eggs; you have a machine that can… so what I can not exercise for hours; 5000 steps is fine why? because before 250 steps were hard… so what, I may need a week in the bed to fight a cold, yes just to fight a cold, take what I need to stay healthy…so what, I have to wear lymphedema sleeves; look good doing it…
My point again is we all have FAULTS… we need to let go of the pain, the hurt, the guilt of things out of our control… change what you can and what you can not let it go. Forgive yourself for all that has happened or that you allowed. Know that being a Perfect Imperfection is a blessing and not a curse our FAULTS help us grow and mature to who we are to become.
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This reminds me of a poem I wrote called “Nearsighted Perfection.” With my glasses off I see perfection, a pretty smile, spotless skin, perfect teeth, I LOOK happy, because I can’t see the imperfections and I can’t SEE the pain. I readily accept the “Nearsighted Perfections.” It’s kinda hard to explain. Once I put my glasses back on, I could no longer look in the mirror…my “FAULTS” were in plain view!
What you’ve said is deep but true. We can easily accept others, love others, but hate ourselves. I’m a pro at it!
It is time to practice what we preach… and teach… forgive ourselves and move on if you can’t accept it at least and move forword
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Love this 🙂